Monday, February 7, 2011

Dating Principle #1 | Make Girlfriend Want You More

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Dating Principle #1: Men and women are different.

This is a hugely profound statement, and yet few men actually INTERNALIZE it and cross that boundary between ‘knowing’ and ‘doing’.

For example, a lot of guys know on a theoretical level that women and men are not the same … and yet they continue, on some level, to expect women to be ‘more like men’.

Often, this takes the shape of the guy who’s biding his time and waiting for ‘The Big One’ (a.k.a. ‘the one’) while he ‘has fun for now’ with women who, secretly, he considers ‘beneath him’ and ‘not up to his standards’ …

… without realizing that the woman he REALLY wants … the one who implicitly ‘gets it’ and ‘understands him’ …

… is NEVER going to show up, unless he decides to take the bit between the teeth and actually
take the initiative as far as female behavior patterns go.

Guys like these are the ones who never invest any effort or time into actually UNDERSTANDING feminine psychology or what ‘works’ with women … and so they end up repeating the same old relationship-pattern again and again.

(While all the time, figuring that, at some point, this fantastic person is going to just show up in their lives without the need for them to make any changes to their attitude or behavior first.)

We all know that men and women are different. But if you want to get some SUCCESS with women, you’ve got to understand HOW they’re different … and what that means for YOU.

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