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How to Get Confident with Girls – It’s About Attitude My Friend!

Feb 16th, 2011

by loxley.

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“How to get confident with girls”. That’s one of the big eternal questions that leave guys wondering how some guys can pull it off. And why you have been unsuccessful up until now.

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What you need to do is ditch your overt attachment to a particular outcome, and lose the sense of desperation and neediness that’s keeping you trapped in Rejection Hell.

The way I see it, the biggest thing that’s keeping most guys back from experiencing real, ongoing success with women is FEAR.

It’s the fear of REJECTION.

If you don’t have a solid ‘game strategy’ about rejection and how to ‘deal’ with it, you’re always going to be balanced on the knife-edge between self-confidence and rock-bottom complete lack of self-esteem. You’re NEVER going to be in control of how you feel about yourself … and you’re ALWAYS going to be handing over your power to EXTERNAL situations that you have no control over. You need to overcome your insecurity.

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And if you’ve experienced ‘rejection’ on a REGULAR BASIS, without a lot of ‘successes’ to counteract it, you’ll be feeling SERIOUSLY scrambled up.

This is where ATTITUDE comes in. The attitude is what CREATES the REALITY.

Suggestion: instead of focusing on FEAR, consider the notion of ABUNDANCE.

In a very real way, there are A LOT of women out there. And some of these women are going to find you attractive. Count on it.

So how about this … instead of thinking that you’ve ‘fluked it’ when you feel a spark with an excellent woman,  how about looking at it in a way that actually supports your lifestyle as a top-notch’blue-ribbon candidate’ MAN.

If you can attract a great woman, it’s not a ‘fluke’. It’s PROOF that YOU HAVE IMPROVED to the level where such women are GENUINELY ATTRACTED to you.

A natural byproduct of this belief is GENUINE RELAXATION and an ability to just ‘chill’ and know that, whatever happens, it’s really NOT such a big deal.

If she walks, well, these things happen. It doesn’t have to be ‘proof’ of your ‘failure’. It’s just WHAT HAPPENS SOMETIMES … and there’s NO controlling it.

Trying to control these sorts of social situations is tantamount to playing ‘God’. Do you REALLY want to develop that sort of complex at this point in your life?

Didn’t think so. So instead of PANICKING and trying to CONTROL WHAT HAPPENS, just … LET GO. Stop worrying. Stop BITCHING. And let the chips fall where they may.

So, how to get confident with girls? Keep in mind that if can attract ONE, you can attract MORE. THERE ARE NO COINCIDENCES.

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