How to Tell if Your Girlfriend Wants to Break Up | Make Girlfriend Want You More

Like all living things, a relationship needs care and nourishment to flourish. But, like all living things, neglect, unhealthy behavior and poisonous attitudes can sap life from it. But the good news is that you really can save your relationship.

What are these unhealthy behavior and poisonous attitudes? Here’s a list of some common relationship killers.

1. You have strong, negative feelings towards your partner.

Disappointment, disrespect, annoyance, anger, resentment. If you feel negatively towards your partner, rather than lash out at them, first work out why you are feeling the way you are. Look for constructive ways to work through those feelings. Learn to see the big picture. Being disappointed in your partner, disrespecting her, resenting her – these will make it difficult for you to give love and for your partner to love you back.

2. You have strong negative feelings about yourself.

If you don’t like or respect yourself, it shows. You become an insecure and
bitter person, making it impossible for you to be happy about yourself and your relationship. Because of this, it is also possible that it is easy for you to feel slighted by your partner, taking whatever he or she says personally.

If this applies to you, consider how deeply you want the negative things in your life to define you. Would you rather be remembered for the good things?

Look deep within yourself and seek out the areas that need healing so that you can live life fully and be the person you want to be – to yourself and to your partner.

3. You have serious personal flaws

You take pride in being self-involved and resistant to change. It is also possible that you lack self-control, are dishonest, have temper tantrums, or mistaken priorities. You could be a proud person, who never wants to “stoop down to their level”, or you are a pessimist.

Whatever it is, consider how these behaviors are destroying your
relationship and making it difficult for your partner to continue to love you. You may think that it will be difficult for you to change, but don’t lose hope.

Change is still possible – with determination, commitment, and the knowledge that every struggle is a step towards a more evolved and lovable you. The love you have for your spouse makes the struggle worth it.

4. You treat your partner horribly.

If you put down your partner, criticize them, and crush their self confidence in an effort to control them – ask yourself, why would your partner still want to be with you? You may say that you are under a lot of stress and you don’t mean to take it out on your partner. Or, you may say that you don’t mean any of it.

Stop right there. Just because your partner loves you, it’s no excuse for you use them as your emotional outlet for all the frustrations in your life. Let your love come first.

5. Finally, you are abusive…

Of yourself or of your partner. Alcohol abuse, drug addiction, physical and verbal abuse – these are all extremely serious situations that demand professional intervention.

If your relationship is at this point, and you find yourself the abuser, perhaps this article is your wake-up call – change now, acknowledge there is a problem, and ask for help – before you do something to yourself and your partner that there’s no turning back from.

A special note for abused partners – as much as possible, do not allow the abuse to go on. Stand up for yourself, get help and get out.

Take a look at all these relationship killers. If you notice, they all start from your personal attitudes. We’ve said time and again that saving your relationship starts with you. Even if you believe that the problem lies with your partner, step back and start asking yourself what your contribution, no matter how big or small, is to the crisis in your relationship.

The first step toward forgiveness in your relationship is understanding that to err is to be human. Fixing a relationship is not about apportioning blame. When we can understand the fallibility’s of our selves and our partners, we are ready to love unconditionally.

We all have our personal faults and we all make mistakes. However, there is a difference between making a mistake “once in a while” and chronically repeating the same behavior. This indicates a personal issue that goes deeper than just mere behavior.

You will need to understand where this behavior is coming from, get to the root of the problem and work towards healing whatever it is that’s causing it.

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