Saturday, April 23, 2011

Signs Your Wife Cheating –What’s Suspicious and Not Real Proof

Sign #1: Changes Her Usual Routine

Is she going to lunch with “friends” or “shopping” more than usual? Is she reluctant to tell you who is going with her or where she has been? A change of behavior by itself is not an indication of infidelity, but it can be suspicious.

Sign #2: Her Demeanor Changes When She’s Around You

Is she moody when she’s around you, but suddenly becomes the life of the party with other people? If she’s indifferent to you but has fun with other people, that’s a serious problem in your relationship. That does not prove she’s been unfaithful, but is very concerning. And you just want the truth.

Sign #3: Some Things Don’t Add Up

Is her mileage unaccounted for? Does she have many more miles than she should? Spending more on gas? Is she out of vacation days at work but you can’t figure out why? Should there be more money in your joint account? If some things just don’t add up, it is certainly suspicious. But it does not prove that your wife is seeing another man.

Sign #4: Does she give an excuse for you not to use her cell phone?

Does she say “the battery’s dead”? or “I left it at work”. If she always has an excuse for you to not use her phone, that’s suspicious behavior. The necessity of a secret is perfect for cell phones. If you find your wife often talking on the phone out of earshot or if you answer the phone only to have the caller hang up on you, there may be reason for concern.

Sign #5: She Overcompensates Her Infidelity Because of Guilt

If your wife suddenly acts kinder, more loving or buys you special gifts (and this is unusual) then she might be trying to overcompensate due to guilt. The real giveaway in this situation is that despite this attention, your wife still finds reasons to not have sex with you. Again, it’s not proof of any negative behavior on her part. She might be trying to save your relationship.

Is My Relationship in Real Trouble?

Even if she shows one or all of these signs, does not prove she’s been unfaithful. Keep this in perspective and watch out for actual proof before you confront her. She may be innocent and if you accuse her of something that she has not done, that might drive you further apart.

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