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What To Do When Your Husband Ignores You

What To Do When Your Husband Ignores You

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By TD Fraser

Feeling Neglected?

Unconventional Tactics That Really Work!
Unconventional Tactics That Really Work!

What To Do When Your Husband Ignores You

Asking yourself what to do when your husband ignores you? Perhaps you've watched one too many soap operas and you've begun scheming ways to get him to notice you again. Here's a few common soap opera plots that you may be familiar with:

She becomes pregnant "accidentally on purpose"
She fakes illness/injury to get some sympathy
She starts an affair because her husband doesn't pay enough attention to her

You may think that these schemes are just fiction. But in fact, women do this stuff all the time! But believe me when I say that there are much better ways to get your husband's attention. The following tactics are unconventional, but they work.

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What To Do If Your Husband Ignores You

Tactic #1: Stop Talking

A wise woman once told me to talk 80% less.

Women like to talk. We like to explain our feelings, talk through our problems and rehash everything. Over and over and over...

Men are different. They don't like to talk about their feelings and they don't want to talk about what's already happened. Is one of the reasons you think your husband is ignoring you is because he does not want to discuss your relationship?

Try speaking 80% less. Don't tell him what your doing, but just say what you mean once. That's it. Don't repeat yourself and don't try to initiate conversations about your relationship.

Why it works: Your husband won't feel pressured to "talk". You won't be baggering or hounding him. The stress level in your relationship will go down and he will start paying positive attention to you. Talking less is actually liberating!

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Tactice #2: Get a Life

Women are raised with the notion that Prince Charming is going to rescue them and they are going to live happily ever after. What a crock! There is no Prince Charming and there is no happily ever after.

Your husband is not responsible for your happiness. You are. It's that simple.
What makes you happy? Have you always wanted to go back to school? Learn to knit, fly, bake, paint, etc.? Do you enjoy working out, hiking or spending time with your girlfriends?

Don't wait for him to create the kind of life you want to live. You are in control of your own life and you are responsible for making yourself happy. Take action and start living today.

Hint: For even better results, try doing something new that he has always wanted to try too.

But don't ask him if he wants to do it with you! Make him ask you!

Why it works: Your husband will start seeing you as an exciting person, one that is full of confidence and fun. You are more attractive when you are happy. He will start noticing a positive change in you and will start paying more attention to you.


What To Do When Your Husband Ignores You

Tactic #3: Focus On You

Have you stopped taking care of your apperance? Let yourself go? Many wives get into a rut after marriage and kids. Who has time for all that nonsense right?

Changing your looks seems like an obvious tactic to use when your husband is ignoring you. But the kind of changes that I'm talking about is going back to basics. Start taking each day as a first date. What would you wear if you were going out with him for the first time today? How much time would you spend on your apperance?

The idea is that you don't want to go overboard. But in the beginning of your relationship, you probably did not pull out the flannel pj's. However, the key to the success of this tactic is to not be obvious about it. Don't make a big deal and don't throw yourself at him.

Why it works: You once caught his eye and you can do it again. With a little planning and effort, you can put the spark back into your relationship. If you feel sexy, you are sexy and he will notice!

Being the Wife Your Husband Can't Resist!

If your asking what to do when your husband ignores you, then your relationship may be in a rut or it may have some serious problems. The good news is that you can improve your relationship and you can get the sizzle back in your relationship.


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